Thursday, January 30, 2014

short men discrimination proof napoleon syndrome does not exist short man syndrome does not exist

Short people discrimination Short man's proof to argue against the myths of Napoleon Syndrome, Evolution, Short Man's Syndrome


Maybe it would be better if I just didn't say anything about short men 5"4 and under being discriminated against to the point of: violence, adult teasing, lower salaries, acceptable bigotry in society, sexual beration, bullying on sidewalks for walking, stereotyped under all types of terms (short men syndrome, little man syndrome, napoleon complex, weak, shrimp, twerp, little general and any word that means small or little is also referred synonymously with weakness in English) and the rest of society blindly believing all this true.  Maybe I should not say anything because we all know that being quiet has always solved discrimination and public ostracizations throughout the history of humankind. 
My purpose for writing this is to write about the short man's experience.  This is a response to all those that say:"it's all in your head, height does not matter, I don't see height, Height discrimindation does not exist and should never be taken seriously, there is no problem." This is also a response to all the people that say "I married a short man or dated a short man and therefore none of these things are true." This is not a debate on confidence or lack of confidence, good looks or bad looks, nor is it comparing one undesirable trait in society to another.  All this is-is proof that short discrimination exists!!!
This is how much the USA (and a few other countries) are in denial over even admitting it exists, yet are so very quick to ironically perpetuate the stereotype and act out and voice the discrimination.
I have to write all this just for people to be able to acknowledge it exists.
Allow me one rant:  Rant:  "If an ugly person tells me of their experience being ugly and says they have faced discrimination, if a beautiful person tells me they too have faced it," I will listen and take into consideration what they say and most likely admit it exists.  That is all.  That was my rant and my point.  I would only like for the acknowledgment that height discrimination exists to be admitted to in the public. I do not expect a short man revolution or behaviors to change toward short men or to compare short men's trials with other people's problems.  As a short man, I only want to voice the experience, document the proof, and get people to perceive it correctly as a discrimination the mass public uses against the short man AND not-and not a made up belief held by the short man that is untrue in the world and is only true in the short man's mind.
I am not endorsing short men should receive anything from the government. I never even considered this as any talking point until other people accused my stating discrimination as a correct term implied that I was somehow wanting something monetary from the government.  No.  I am defending short men and bringing proof and attention to a form of discrimination that is practiced largely in our culture and is growing in its practice and discrimination.  I am calling attention to this because I am effected and it is very painful.  I am calling attention to this to let those who might think that what they say and do is in the name of a joke is actually very cruel and hurtful.  So, for those who say this stuff innocently will now be aware that it is not innocent and can know exactly what they are contributing to.
With that said: have you ever said anything negative about short men?  Would you want your child to be a short man of 5"4 or under?  Why not?  How many discriminations can you name that are perfectly  okay'd in society, the media, propaganda, in churches, in families to say out loud and in front of the accused without worrying about any backlash?  How many discriminations are put on people that are perfectly healthy and normal acting and looking for one physical feature that is not a health concern or risk and that is considered normal throughout all society and all time? 
How many of you might equate 6 inches below the average height for a male equivalent to: a big nose, slew foot, lisps, being too thin, or too pale?  With all that said I will first give you the link to my story: Sorry, it could not be shorter: shortmen64inches.blogspot.com
Below are proofs documented by studies and some sites on personal stories:
My only attempt and purpose for this study is to try and fight the discrimination put on short men and to defend short men's position. Maybe you might find it interesting. Maybe you won't.  Everybody has problems and sadly- yet truly enough-- the world operates off of "if you aren't in some way making my life better (making me look good, entertaining me, giving me financial gain, sex, peace of mind spiritually, listening to me, serving one of my needs), I have no time to hear about how I can help you and others like you. I don't care because everybody has a problem (war ptsd, single parent families, born ugly, abused child sexually or mentally, born in a violent country and government, the list goes on)"  It is this way, and it will never change; I am not naive--but maybe EVerybody doesn't have to be this way, and I don't see how my writing about this hurts short men in any way; and I can see how my writing this can contribute to enlightening those of their own disciminations practiced. I can also see how my writing this can be useful to short men 5"4 and under to see that they are not alone (although they might be THE only one in a neighborhood, school, workplace, family) and are correct in seeing that it is not their percetion/outlook or response to discriminations that is wrong, but a reality that other people's discriminations against them are real and proven.  Here's the proof:
Articles on proving Short Men are treated differently than other men:
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MensHealthNews/story?id=8347950
A short guy is interviewed and won’t show his face. He says: "The worst thing about being short is there is nothing I can do about it," said Jeff. "Fat people can diet and exercise, skinny people can eat and lift weights, ugly people can have plastic surgery. Being short is more akin to being disabled."
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Story?id=230011&page=1
Nothing succeeded in making them prefer the shorter men. One woman even suggested that 20/20 describe the tall men as "murderers" to even the odds for the shorter men in the test. The women preferred murderers over short men.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AR3YR1ZTonc
[20/20 does a study:Video shows indisputable rule of love based on height.]
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MensHealthNews/story?id=8347950
[Short man’s syndrome is debunked by research. It does not exist.]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0wRt2rffdco
[Kenyans also show heightism]
http://heresyourfix.wordpress.com/2010/02/20/true-story-why-napoleon-could-never-have-had-a-napoleon-complex/
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/180853/
http://www.news.com.au/national/doctors-debunk-short-man-syndrome-myth/story-e6frfkp9-1111113254807
How many media, propaganda, commercials ridicule height? The credit score commercials with 3 men show a short 5”4 ish, fat, bald man digging in his ears and smelling his underarms with a low-short 583 score standing next to taller and more attractive facially and body wise men with higher credit scores. The take away is taller men don't only look better than short men, but also are more physically fit, smiling and happy, wealthier, and better investors. The taller man also taps the shorter man on his back and bullies him out of the space the shorter man occupies. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CU5iBWG2tI4
Title Max is another commercial. Kevin Hart is another comedian who ridicules himself over height.
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/MensHealthNews/story?id=8347950
http://abcnews.go.com/2020/Story?id=230011&page=1
ttps://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/
http://wn.com/height_discrimination
http://nypost.com/2013/12/08/short-men-dont-stack-up-with-nyc-women/
http://www.thegloss.com/2013/05/06/beauty/gosh-i-feel-bad-for-short-men/
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/180853/
http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating/why-do-women-all-seem-to-want-taller-men/
http://www.eharmony.com/dating-advice/dating/why-do-women-all-seem-to-want-taller-men/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2270214/Why-vertically-challenged-men-short-end-stick-comes-marriage.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/News/0035.html
[British and Polish studies prove women prefer tall men]
http://www.shortsupport.org/News/0092.html
[a written interview with many short men and women critiquing height]
http://www.jonathanrauch.com/jrauch_articles/height_discrimination_short_guys_finish_last/
[article by a writer describing all the things short men go through; citing examples of criticism on short men by Bill Clinton and others]
http://bellapetite.com/height-discrimination-waitresses-fired-for-being-too-short-petite-models.html
[waitress fired for being too short]
http://www.eeoc.gov/laws/practices/inquiries_height_weight.cfm
[US equal employment website acknowledges heightism exists and is a form of discrimination]
disproven theory of eugenics.
http://wn.com/height_discrimination
(short men are physically run into 700X more so than other people on sidewalk collisions)
http://witchrants.wordpress.com/2013/04/27/rant-on-height-discrimination-against-shorter-women-and-men/
[a short man rants on about his experience as a short man and what he has witnessed]
http://www.ign.com/blogs/Lost_In_Translation/2010/09/23/1-43-short-men-tall-women-height-discrimination-2/
[IGN surveys and research proving numerous accounts of heightism’s effect on society and women’s preferences for tall men]
http://writ.news.findlaw.com/dorf/20040526.html
[Chinese had written laws of discrimination; stating not to hire short people]
http://myfloridalegal.com/ago.nsf/Opinions/2C95C3D0169E0F61852566B3005D23C1
[Court case. CIVIL RIGHTS--DISCRIMINATORY EFFECTS OF HEIGHT AND WEIGHT REQUIREMENTS]Minimum height and weight limits for highway patrol and firemen
http://www.ohioemployerlawblog.com/2013/07/the-long-and-short-of-height.html#.UsEpZih1P0c
[Arizona Department of Agriculture is asked to consider heightism as discriminator. Woman files suit]
http://www.foxnews.com/story/2007/05/18/weight-and-height-may-be-added-to-massachusetts-anti-discrimination-laws/
[Heightism is added to Michigan’s anti-discrimination laws]
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15161403
[The effect of physical height on workplace success and income: preliminary test of a theoretical model]
http://shortpeoplegotnobody.weebly.com/
(Are short men pushed around on sidewalks)
http://www.economist.com/node/1011419
[a Chinese man, has brought a case against a branch of China's central bank for discriminating against job applicants who are on the short side.]

http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/51_dating_girl.html
[what it means to be short, and some suggestions for short men]
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_height

{Height according to Wikipedia. What determines height, height and salary, history of human height, height charts around the world}
http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/discrimination-against-short-men
[short man tells his coming of age story] Oh, c’mon!” I’ve heard many, many times. “People don’t treat you any differently because you’re short.”
http://goodmenproject.com/noseriouslywhatabouttehmenz/unconscious-bias-against-short-men/
[A test is given. The IATs have shown a systematic bias against short men– in fact, the scientist interviewed in the video compares the magnitude of the effect to that of race or ethnicity. Even more interestingly, this is almost entirely a subconscious bias.]
http://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2012/04/23/unconscious-bias-against-short-men/
[This four-minute video reports research showing that, even if we’re not aware of it, most of us have unconscious biases against short men.]  (It’s also a great description of Implicit Association Tests.)
Test that you can take, proves height bias: https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/
dating sites report short men get the fewest responses
http://nypost.com/2013/12/08/short-men-dont-stack-up-with-nyc-women/
[On Dating sites:The likelihood that a man under 5-foot-9 is contacted by a Manhattan or Bronx woman online is a scant 1.2 percent. ]
http://www.thegloss.com/2013/05/06/beauty/gosh-i-feel-bad-for-short-men/
[A woman notices the height discrimination given by women toward short men]
napoleon was never short
http://heresyourfix.wordpress.com/2010/02/20/true-story-why-napoleon-could-never-have-had-a-napoleon-complex/
[Napoleon was not short]
http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?t=394830
proof that the short man complex doesn't exist: The myth of the Napoleon complex and other short subjects
http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/180853/
Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/180853/#ixzz2q7RoZrTn
[Testing the Short man syndrome and Napoleon complex "The Napoleon Complex" - Short Men Are More Aggressive - Fact Or Fiction?]
http://www.news.com.au/national/doctors-debunk-short-man-syndrome-myth/story-e6frfkp9-1111113254807
[Doctors debunk 'short man syndrome' myth]
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/6501633.stm
[Short men 'not more aggressive']
Height has been known to affect a man's sexuality
http://www.akawilliam.com/study-very-short-very-tall-men-more-likely-to-be-gay
[shows an unusual amount of short men are gay]
http://www.sheknows.com/love-and-sex/articles/844767/why-short-guys-rule
[some random woman talking about short men are strong and why she like them.]  "Plus, a healthy 160-pound, 5-foot-5 man is going to be a stronger protector than a healthy 160-pound, 5-foot-11 man. It's been well documented, pound for pound, shorter men have greater endurance, stronger muscles, faster reaction times, faster body movement and are less likely to break bones. 

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2270214/Why-vertically-challenged-men-short-end-stick-comes-marriage.html
 only 3.8% of women date men shorter than themselves. Men of average height and up to 6 inches taller have more kids than men 6"7 and taller, but men 6'7 have more kids than the least in the group from 5'4 and down.
[at the end of this study and graphs a professor concludes:Professor Cohen comments: 'Humans could couple up differently, if they wanted to. If it were desirable to have a taller-woman-shorter-man relationship, it could be much more common. 
'In these data, we could find shorter husbands for 28 percent of the wives. Instead, people exaggerate the difference by seeking out taller-man-shorter-woman pairings for marriage]

Short women make more money: (although I do believe very short women 5"1 and under do face discrimination)
Update: Another study finds that shorter women make more money. Bakadesuyo concludes: "Looks like men get rewarded for what is deemed as masculine and women get rewarded for what is seen as feminine. Seems to make sense. I didn't say it was fair, I just said it made sense."http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2010/05/studies-short-people-are-dumb-poor-criminals/56372/
http://www.freshbusinessthinking.com/news.php?NID=3228&Title=Figures+Reveal+Executives+Are+Focusing+On+Beauty+And+Height+To+Keep+Jobs+In+Recession#.UsOHuyh1P0c
Cop is harassed by fellow coworkers for being short.
http://www.shortsupport.org/News/0645.html
Chinese woman declined job: http://www.shortsupport.org/News/0429.html
Films/Commercials/Documentaries:
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/basketball-ziats.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/rock-mangano.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/frasier-sgoldsmith.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/twins-blisniesky.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/blackadder-calwell.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/taxi-sgoldsmith.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/fawlty-calwell.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/mash-sgoldsmith.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/lucy-palma.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comedies/shrek-arnold.html
( I remember shrek 2 with the prince being short and evil and often being berated for being short and evil)
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/comics/popeye-jason.html
Commercials: almost all of Kevin Hart's commercials (Nick Cannon and Kevin Hart)
Michael Jordan and Spike Lee
Credit Score 3 guys
Title Max
 http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/commercials/titlemax-DiMonte.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/commercials/fram-nguyen.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/commercials/casualmalexl-moriarty.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/commercials/burgerking-summers.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/commercials/tmobile-goldsmith.html
just go here for all the commercials against short men:
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/commercials/index.html
http://www.shortsupport.org/TheMedia/index.html
CNN with Paula Zahn, Report on Heightism, Aired 3/19/07.Matt Campisi, president of the National Organization of Short Statured Adults (NOSSA) and Ellen Frankel, author of "Beyond Measure: a memoir about short stature & inner growth" are interviewed by CNN's Dan Lothian. This is a thoughtful report on how short people are treated in life, relationships and the workplace.
Documentary on short people:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ibugwdAiCM
•    Homer Stokes from O Brother, Where Art Thou?
•    Bob from Becker
•    Bob 'Bulldog' Briscoe from Frasier
•    Louie De Palma from Taxi (played by Danny DeVito, who is only 5 ft, or 1.52 m tall)
•    Bud Bundy from Married... with Children (played by David Faustino, who is only 5 ft 3 inches, or 1.60 m tall)
•    Radar O'Reilly from M*A*S*H
•    Spence Olchin from The King of Queens
•    Kerry Hennessy from the TV series 8 Simple Rules
•    Gimli (played by John Rhys-Davies, who is 6 ft 1 inch, or 1.85m tall) and other dwarves from The Lord of the Rings trilogy
•    Edward Elric from the anime Fullmetal Alchemist
•     Ripto of the videogame series Spyro the Dragon   
George from Seinfeld, Carlton from Fresh Prince, Spence from King of Queens, Martin off Martin, Kevin Hart.
Robin Meade and that weather man Bob Van Dillen: when the guy Ariel Castro who kidnapped all those little girls was sentenced they made a thousand short jokes.
For those that say short men aren't just strong but some of the absolute strongest:Tamio "Tommy" Kono 5"6, waldemar baszanowski 5"5, Franco Columbo 5”5, Nikolay Pechalov 5"8 (not short in my book, but in some peoples), Pyrros Dimas 5"8, Halil Mutlu 4"11 but only one of five men in history to lift 3 times his weight. Alexander the Great 5'0. I could keep listing short men, but I'm tired of the subject of short men.

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